At 2.30pm today the Funeral Mass for the late Tadg and Diarmuid O’Sullivan RIP will be celebrated in Saint Mary’s Church, Parish of Castlemagner, Co Cork, in the Diocese of Cloyne. Father Toby Bluitt PP will be chief celebrant for this Mass. After Mass, Tadg and Diarmuid’s remains will be interred in Saint Brigid’s Cemetery, Castlemagner.
In accordance with current public health restrictions, Tadg and Diarmuid’s Funeral Mass shall take place privately involving family members only.
Introduction and welcome by Father Toby Bluitt
Good afternoon and welcome to Saint Mary’s Church Castlemagner for the Funeral Mass of Tadg and Diarmuid O’ Sullivan.
My name is Father Toby Bluitt, I am the Parish Priest of Kanturk, Lismire and Castlemagner.
Grief is never an easy burden to bear – and never more so when it comes to us in what can only be described as an untimely, shocking and tragic way.
We gather in such grief today – carrying a burden that not only seems to be, but in fact is, overwhelming.
We gather to comfort and support each other in our common loss.
We gather to make sense of the senseless.
We join with Bishop Crean in offering our deepest sympathies to Ann and to the relatives of and to the extended O’ Sullivan family.
We ask you to keep them in your prayers as they endeavour to navigate this path of unexpected loss and anguish.
We welcome friends, neighbours and all who due to the current restrictions are unable to be with us in person here today.
I would like to welcome and thank my colleague Father John Magner for his ministry to the family during this difficult week and for joining me today in offering the funeral mass for Tadg and Diarmuid.
Entrance Antiphon
O Lord, support us all the day long,
until the shadows lengthen, and the evening comes
and the busy world is hushed
and the fever of life is over, and our work is done
then Lord, in thy mercy, grant us a safe lodging,
a holy rest and peace at the last
Collect
Lord God
whose days are without end
and whose mercies beyond counting
keep us mindful
that life is short and the hour of death unknown
Let your spirit guide our days on earth
sure in faith, strong in hope, perfect in love
And when our earthly journey is ended
lead us rejoicing into your kingdom
Through our Lord Jesus Christ your Son who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit
One God for ever and ever.
First Reading
A reading from the prophet Isaiah
The spirit of the Lord God is upon me
because the Lord has anointed me
he has sent me to bring good news to the oppressed
to bind up the broken hearted
to proclaim liberty to the captives
and release to the prisoners
to comfort all who mourn
to give them a garland instead of ashes
the oil of gladness instead of mourning
They will be called oaks of righteousness
The planting of the Lord, to display his glory
The Word of the Lord
Responsorial Psalm
Response: The Lord is my light and my help
The Lord is my light and my help
whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life;
Of whom shall I be afraid R
There is one thing I ask of the Lord
for this I long
to live in the house of the Lord
all the days of my life R
Do not abandon or forsake me
O God my help
Hope in him, hold firm and take heart
Hope in the Lord R
Second Reading
A reading from the Second Letter of Saint Paul to the Corinthians
We do not proclaim ourselves; we proclaim Jesus Christ as Lord and ourselves as your slaves for Jesus’ sake
For it is the God who said ”Let light shine out of darkness”, who has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.
But we have this treasure in clay jars so that it may be made clear that this extraordinary power belongs to God and does not come from us.
We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed
Perplexed, but not driven to despair
Persecuted but not forsaken
Struck down but not destroyed
Always carrying in the body the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be visible in our bodies.
The Word of the Lord
Gospel Acclamation
Alleluia Alleluia
God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son,
So that everyone who believes in him might have eternal life
Gospel proclaimed by Father John Magner
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Luke
It was about noon and darkness came over the whole land
until three in the afternoon
because of an eclipse of the sun.
Then the veil of the temple was torn down the middle.
Jesus cried out in a loud voice,
“Father, into your hands I commend my spirit”;
and when he had said this he breathed his last.
Now there was a virtuous and righteous man named Joseph who,
though he was a member of the council,
went to Pilate and asked for the Body of Jesus.
After he had taken the Body down,
he wrapped it in a linen cloth
and laid him in a rock-hewn tomb
in which no one had yet been buried.
The Gospel of the Lord
Homily preached by Father Bluitt
Today’s Gospel from Luke which depicts the Passion of Christ speaks of a darkness coming over the whole world, indeed it seemed like that same darkness, the darkest hour of creation – enveloped the O’Sullivan family and the local community here in Castlemagner over the past number of days.
The normally tranquil local area blanketed at this time of year with a myriad of colourful Autumn leaves became a hive of activity and the Autumn light was, for a time, a very distant memory.
The shock, the numbness, the devastation, was impossible to imagine and the unfolding news of the loss of three lives was incomprehensible.
At times like this, to quote from Jesuit Father John Reese, “a priest does not come down the mountain like Moses … with inspiration from God.” Just like all of you, I too am struggling to make sense of this life changing tragedy.
Tadg O’ Sullivan worked in the motor trade locally for over 40 years. From my own encounters with him, I always found him to be very accommodating, friendly and happy in his chosen field.
Diarmuid attended school in Ballyhass and Kanturk like his older brother Mark and also socialised in Castlemagner. He went on to study Accountancy at Cork Institute of Technology (CIT). He finished his studies last June and was due to have his conferring online next week. CIT paid tribute to him and underlined the shock felt within the CIT community at the tragedy.
One would imagine that life was full of possibilities for him.
One could also say that both Tadg and Diarmuid touched many people’s lives along the way as they journeyed through life.
Their lives and deaths have changed you all and you will never be the same again.
So today, gathered together in our grief, we do not minimise the loss of their lives by trying to provide easy answers.
Because there are no answers.
But there are some things that we do know in the midst of our grief.
We know that this was not God’s will, that the Lord’s prayer teaches us “thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven”. God’s will is not always done on earth as the tragedy of this week reminds us.
We know that this was not a “wake up call”, nor did it happen so that we can learn something
For God is moved by this tragedy too.
He sent his only son to alleviate our suffering.
Jesus saw tragedy – sickness, blindness, despair, hunger, and grief – and was moved over and over to end the suffering and relieve the pain of those whose lives he encountered.
Jesus cried in grief when his friend Lazarus died. Even while knowing that he would bring Lazarus back from the tomb, Jesus was still moved to tears.
Jesus in his own suffering on the cross saw his mother’s pain and asked John to care for her.
Jesus is moved by our fear, our grief, our pain, our loss, our suffering because he, too, has suffered.
And he weeps with us when we weep.
Mercy is the first attribute of God. The name of God is mercy.
There are no situations that we cannot get out of.
We are not condemned to sink into quicksand.
So today, we come in our grief, our pain, our anger and our confusion.
Do we chose to allow the heart breaking turbulence of tragedy to hold us captive?
To rob us of our destination?
To cloud the glimmer of light that will guide us on our way?
Or do we chose to walk out from the shadows and actions of darkness?
To take small steps towards our destination.
Toward the light and brightness of a new day
Prayer of the Faithful
Introduction: In the face of death, we ask God our Father to ease our sorrow, increase our hope and renew our confidence through the victory of Christ over death:
- For Tadg and Diarmuid. In baptism they were given the pledge of eternal life. May they know the glory of your kingdom where there is no more sorrow. Lord hear us
- Lord when all is dark and we are being tossed about in the storms of life, grant us the faith to know that you are near and that you will direct us to safety and peace. Lord hear us
- For our parish community. May we continue to be a neighbourhood of caring followers of Christ. Lord hear us
- For our extended Christian family far and wide who have supported us in prayer and solidarity during this challenging time. Lord hear us
- For members of the Emergency services and all who assisted in any way during this tragic event. May the Lord continue to bless their work and keep them safe. Lord hear us
- Tadg and Diarmuid touched many people’s lives during their earthly journey. May we remember them as being made in God’s image and loved by God. Lord hear us
Conclusion:
Father, we come to you at this time of great shock and grief.
Into your hands we commend the souls of Tadg and Diarmuid, bring them home to your heavenly kingdom.
We ask this through your Risen Son, Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.
Concluding Prayer
God of all consolation
In your unending love and mercy for us
You turn the darkness of death into the dawn of new life
Show compassion to your people in their sorrow
as we commend Tadg and Diarmuid to you
Strengthen the bonds of our family and our community
Be our refuge and our strength
To lift us from the darkness of our grief
To the peace and light of your presence
We ask this through Christ our Lord, Amen
ENDS
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